NOT FOR COURTSHIP

In courtship, no guy has any right or power to instruct you, not to think of impose something on you or compel you to do something.

The Bible says “Wives, submit to your own husbands…”, not your own boyfriends or fiances.

For a guy to have any right over you, he must first have paid your dowry.

So, in courtship, a lady is not meant to submit to any guy. She’s only meant to submit to her husband in marriage.

Run away from any guy imposing his decisions on you and demanding submission from you before marriage, you will never enjoy such marriage.

However, in courtship, a guy is meant to love his fiancee and make sacrifices on her behalf, to show and give her a taste of what he would do in marriage.

Notwithstanding, a lady has no right whatsoever to demand a guy to do anything for her, because they are not married yet.

The guy is only meant to do anything he wishes for the girl, based on his own free will and love for the girl.

Lastly, a guy must never love his fiancee above either his sisters or mother, she’s not yet his family member.

But a man must love his wife above his sisters and mother; she’s now one with him, a total and inseparable part of him.

Some things are not meant for courtship but marriage only, the first of those things is sex.

Never (again) have sex with anyone you’re not married to, even if your wedding is tomorrow and your joining is the next one minute.

And you, guy, any girl you gave money to, whether you sponsored her in school or did anything for her, and you because of that had sex with her, has no obligations towards you anymore.

Why?

You’ve given what you have and you’ve taken what she has, you’re both in business and have traded with each other.

Stop saying you spent money on her or helped her and she jilted you. No! You didn’t spend that money to help her, you simply made payments for a job done.

Well, lady, if you got money for sex, it is called prostitution. No, you’re not in courtship, you’re in business, with him.

Some things are not meant for courtship, they are meant for marriage. So, now, stop that nonsense today!

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I am A. T. ADENEKAN

Founder, The King’s People Connection & Happy Marriage Training Programme