The First Thing and Possibly the Greatest Thing That Makes a Good Marriage Turn Bad Is…
- UNFORGIVENESS!
Unforgiveness is an ATTITUDE…
An attitude that destroys a good home…
And many people don’t know it is the root cause of their personal and marital problems…
Some people carry unforgiveness into their marriage from before the marriage…
And it is killing their marriage without their knowledge.
You see, before you get married, YOU MUST FORGIVE EVERYONE WHO HAS HURT YOU.
You must forgive your father that hurt you…
Your mother that made you cry…
Your siblings that offended you.
Your friends that betrayed you…
Your neighbour that disgraced you…
Your leader that disappointed you…
Your teacher that failed you…
Your toasters that disturbed you…
Your Uncle and Aunts that Maltreated you…
Your fiancee or fiance that didn’t do negatively surprised you…
Your spouse that daily offend you…
Including yourself…
Yes! You must forgive yourself…
All those times you missed it and you knew you disappointed yourself…
YOU MUST FORGIVE YOURSELF OF THEM ALL…
And, can I please shock you?
You must also FORGIVE that guy that raped you…
And those ones that attempted to rape you…
You must forgive the girl that raped you and those ones that lied on you and attempted to bring you down or planned against you.
You MUST FORGIVE THEM ALL…
If you don’t forgive all these people including yourself, what would happen is this…
YOU WOULD CARRY THOSE BITTERNESS YOU HAVE TOWARDS THOSE PEOPLE into YOUR MARRIAGE…
And those bitterness would begin to manifest in your marriage from your Subconscious Mind…
And it would be causing BIG PROBLEMS between you and your spouse and other people around or people that relate with you…
But the biggest of the problem is that YOU WOULDN’T KNOW WHY THE PROBLEMS ARE COMING UP…
You might never get it…
Because it is not easy to trace it to the root cause…
Is someone following me?
So you’ll continue to solve headache not knowing that the problem is not just the headache but deeper…
So, eventually, a good marriage that started with GOOD DANCE STEPS on the wedding day and GREAT JOY on the wedding night and GREAT SEX overnight of the wedding would SUDDENLY or GRADUALLY begin to turn BITTER…
Until it becomes a BITTER MARRIAGE…instead of a HAPPY MARRIAGE…
So your enemy would now begin to weep and regret that marriage…
EVERY BITTERNESS IN YOUR PRESENT and FUTURE MARRIAGE IS CANCELED TODAY IN JESUS NAME!
You are set free from every bondage of Unforgiveness in the mighty name of JESUS CHRIST!
So, the first assignment I’ll give you tonight is to THINK BACK on your life and see in your mind everyone that ever did something that displeased you, everyone that ever hurt you, from whenever you can remember till now, and begin to SET THEM FREE in your mind…
Begin to FORGIVE THEM FROM YOUR HEART…
This is a very important and serious exercise you must carry out.
NOTE: THIS WAS THE FIRST LECTURE WE USED TO OPEN HAPPY MARRIAGE TRAINING PROGRAMME in August 2017, and it was the first point I used during the ANNIVERSARY SEMINAR in August 2018.