A Woman Asked 3 Questions On Platform 18 in Our Ongoing HAPPY MARRIAGE AFRICA 2020, You Might Want to Learn from My Response to Her First Question, Especially If You’re Married.
THE QUESTION
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Q1. What should a married couple do when they go out of love?
MY RESPONSE
You’ll do things that will constantly spark up your love. You don’t even wait till the love goes out.
But if it is already out, spark it up and bring it back to life.
How?
- Use these Lectures first to understand yourself and your partner.
If you read the Lecture well and go through it all till the end, you’ll be able to understand both you and your partner very well.
- Ensure you take part in Part 2 of the training, there you’ll have a lot of things that will help you to know how to prevent your marital love from going out. But aside that…
- Remember, what were you doing before when the fire of that love in your marriage was still hot? Whatever you did then, do it again and again and again from now.
It is easy for couples to relax after marriage. But, remember, if your food is on fire, it gets hot. Once it leaves the fire for too long, it starts getting cold.
What do you do to get it hot again? Put it back on that same fire.
So, what made that food hot before is the same thing that’ll make it hot again. Same goes with the love in our marriages.
Remember what you were doing when the love was hot and start doing them again, NOW IN A NEW WAY AND WITH NEW METHODS.
- Study yourself and your spouse to know what each of you like and dislike.
Stop doing what your spouse dislikes. Doing what your partner dislikes will easily make the love he or she has for you to start going down and out. And find a way to communicate yours to him or her too, with wisdom.
- Find ways and invent different methods that will make you do more and more of what your husband or wife likes.
When you constantly do what someone likes, the person will begin to like you more, think more about you, and want to be with you more of the time.
That’s what sparks love into flame and the more you do that the more the fire burns. The less you do that the less the fire burns. So, do it more often and consistently.
- It is normal in marriage to sometimes feel love disappears. It doesn’t mean the love is no longer there, it just means it needs being fanned into flame. So, you do 4 and 5 above.
But, for you personally…
- The greatest thing that will make you enjoy your marriage is if you enjoy your own life first. And the only way you can truly enjoy your life is when you are doing with your life the reason why your life was created in the first place.
What do I mean by that?
When you are fulfilling your life purpose.
Read Lecture 101 again, and you’ll understand it better in Lecture 301 if you participate in Part 2.
You must first discover your life purpose. And then start fulfilling it. If not, there will be times you’ll become very unhappy and dissatisfied with yourself. And you’ll not know why.
At that time, your love for your partner will be affected and nobody will even know what’s wrong with you. That’s why a lot of marriages breakup and they don’t know why.
Purpose is ultimate. If you’re not doing what you’re sent into this world to do, you’ll constantly feel unhappy without knowing the reason.
And you’ll sometimes be angry with your spouse for no cause.
But when you are fulfilling your life purpose, you’ll constantly be happy and that happiness will radiate your marriage.
You’ll understand better in Part 2 and in one of our courses 9 THINGS YOU MUST CONSIDER BEFORE AND WITHIN YOUR MARRIAGE.
Take note of all these 7 things and start practising them from now. They’ll spark up the love in your marriage.
End of Response!
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