On 27th of April 2019, I interacted with one of the participants of our ongoing marriage and relationship training project Happy Marriage, Africa; she’s a married woman from Lesotho.
She has a Degree in Data Capture, and works at the country’s Ministry of Home Affairs.
She told me she was referred to the training group by a friend. When I asked her to tell me what she has to say about the KSM training, she responded:
“It’s very helpful because now it has made me see things differently in my marriage…I was on the verge of giving up on my marriage and now I am gaining new knowledge and strength and I am so thankful for having known about….”
I told her to please tell me all about it. She replied:
“All the years that I lived in My Marriage has…been the hardest years in my life…we have always been fighting about many things. So now I know that it’s because of our Characters Incompatibility.”
She said “…It’s in rare cases where we can see things from a similar point of view and that makes our marriage very challenging that I think now we are at the stage where we are slowly growing apart.”
I asked that now, since the time you joined this KSM, to tell me:
- What have you learnt that can help your marriage?
- What have you done based on what you learnt, even if it is just one or two?
- What changes have you seen so far, even if it is very little?
She narrated:
“1. I have learned that being incompatible with my partner is not the end of our marriage…there is still hope….Only God can change the bad things that I don’t like about him, my work is just to pray the right prayer.”
- Since I have been a member I have learned to try to see and appreciate my hubby’s Good Character after learning that every angel has its demonic side.”
- The change that I have seen so far is that the heaviness in my heart is disappearing and I am starting to see light at the end of the tunnel.”
She closed by saying, “Thank you so much…you’re indeed making a difference in my life…this programme came at the right time into my life. Continue doing the good work.”
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I am A. T. ADENEKAN
Founder, The King’s People Connection & Happy Marriage Training Programme