Merclia is her name, a Tertiary Student in Cameroon, One of the Participants of #KSM Training in the first set of HAPPY MARRIAGE, AFRICA Project, started on 15th of April 2019.
We told them to tell us seven or more things they learnt from the training. Read what she wrote:
”During the courses I have taken in the King’s School of Marriage, here are the 7 major lessons I have learnt:
1) Being married to the right person does not necessarily mean you will not have conflicts but the key is you will have lesser and resolved conflicts. Of course, this is when your character compatibility is in check.”
2) People can be compatible in many other areas. For example ministerial compatibility and work compatibility. But that does not necessarily mean they are maritally compatible.”
3) Also, many people don’t carefully question themselves to see if they can actually, lovingly and peacefully endure the bad sides of their partner for life. Instead, they focus just on the good sides and when they get married, that which was ‘hidden’ becomes revealed. And they are like, ‘What has happened to so and so person?’ Not knowing it was the same person all along.”
4) Seeking the will of God (about who you want to marry) on your own is very important. So that when things start getting rough, you will be rest assured that God and God alone is the Author and He will be the Finisher of that Marriage. Since all things are held together by Him consequently, He definitely will see you through.”
5) I never knew that considering people’s temperaments was important when choosing a partner. Guess that one was an eye opener for me.”
6) From one of the testimonies shared by our lecturer I affirmed that guidance from a Mentor can also help you know the voice of God. Especially when you are having issues with decision making. A higher and helping hand in the form of mentor can greatly produce a wonderful outcome. Since in most cases they have the experience and have dealt with several issues.”
7) Last, but not least, the way our lecturer interacts with his students, it is without a doubt that he is a Great Husband to his wife. His diligence and consistency is visible in his daily interactions with us students. Showing that his Faith definitely has works. This is such a great inspiration because what he has been doing in the secret place has not gone unnoticed by God because it shows he himself together with Mama are living Epistles of this Great gospel in the area of marriage.”
Thanks for your kind attention.
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