On the 31st of March 2020, We Organised an Online Free QUESTIONS & ANSWERS SESSION on Marriage and Relationship on 2 from Our Over 100 WhatsApp Platforms in The King’s People Connection and Happy Marriage Training Programme. We repeated same exercise twice Before the 8th of April 2020.

One of the Last Questions Came from a Beautiful Young Lady from a Beautiful Country in the Beautiful Continent of Africa.

Her Question Was Simple and Straightforward:

THE #QUESTION

“Is it good for single lady to be living a couple life?”

Before I answered, for the first time during the exercise, I told her to answer the question by herself and give the the reason for her answer. She did. Then I told others to answer too.

Then later came my response to her question. You might want to read it to learn from it too, whether you’re single or married, it will be useful either for you to apply to your life as a #single or to use to teach your children and other singles if you’re a #married person.

MY #RESPONSE:

No, It Is Not Good!

In fact, it is very evil.

It will destroy your life, focus, future and destiny, especially for the lady.

There are three ways you could be living a couple life as a single or before your marriage:

1. By #living with someone you’re not married to.
2. By visiting someone you’re in a relationship with and #sleeping over in his or her place.

Or

3. By #giving sex to a lady or a guy you’re not yet married to.

If you’re doing any of these three things or living with someone you’re not yet married to, you’re already selling your future to that person and you’ve sold your happiness in your future marriage to the person you’re living with, whether you’re male or female.

It will surely have dire consequences on your life and you’ll lose much things both in the present and the future and more importantly in marriage.

When you’re living with someone you’re not married to, you’ll be having sex with that person, right?

Now, if you’re a girl, this person is having free sex with you and having free access to you whenever he wants, without having married you and without having paid your dowry. That’s an insult on your parents who gave birth to you, sent you to school, and trained you in life.

That guy can never respect your parents in life, even if he eventually marries you, which is most unlikely. So, you bring shame upon your parents by giving yourself to someone without their consent and knowledge.

And, if you’re a guy, you’re harbouring another person’s daughter in your house or living with her without her parents’ consent, you need to pray very well so that your future children will not experience such because you’re already cursing your future generation by that act.

Remember, what you sow is what you will reap in life. It is a constant law of life that does not change in life. But, the way many people reap what they sow is many times unknown to them.

Many children are suffering the consequences of their parents’ past misdeeds without their knowledge. That’s why everyone of us must give our lives to Jesus Christ, study the Bible well, and stand on the truth of the Word of God so that what someone did years back or the bad things our parents did in the past will not be reaped by us in life or visited upon our lives. Only the Word of God can cancel that.

Furthermore, if you’re living with someone you’re not married to, you lose your value in life. He or she has seen everything you have. Especially if you are a girl, the guy sees your nakedness everyday. He has sex with you whenever and however he likes. He touches every part of your body in every way he wants it. He does with you what he wants and when he wants.

So, what value do you have left in that body? What else do you have that is appealing to him? You’ve lost it all as far as he’s concerned. And if your head is not much correct, he could have your naked pictures. So, whenever he likes he can release it to the public or threaten to release it when you’re no longer together and use that to control you. You need to wise up.

Also, if a guy has sex with you all the time and how he wants, how do you expect such a guy to still marry you later and come and pay your dowry? What exactly is he coming to pay for? What he has already eaten enough of before buying? You’re joking!

So, such a guy will most likely never marry you. He will eventually discard you and you’ll be left heartbroken because of the emotional pains you’ll feel as a result of your being discarded like a sanitary pad. You’ve been used and dumped.

Or, how well do you like and cherish your used sanitary pad? Do you keep it in your bag or you drop it in the trash? You’re going to be later dropped in the waste bin in life or be flushed out into the toilet of life as far as that guy is concerned. So, you lose!

Consider also if you are dumped, and tomorrow you want to marry someone else, only to discover that this guy is a friend or brother or cousin or relation to the person you’re planning to get married to. How would you feel then?

Or if you’re already married and you discover this, imagine how much shame would cover your life when you know it, and how would you feel if this guy has to visit your husband at home or pay a visit to your family? How would you feel sitting at the same table with such a person? Girl, don’t sell your future because of little pleasure of the present.

If you’ve been selling it, stop now!

Lastly, let’s assume this guy is a good, cool and honest guy, he keeps his promises and eventually marries you. There are two negative implications, and these are the two things destroying the homes of many couples and destroying many marriages where there were premarital sex. And, this is for both male and female. What are these two things?

1. The guy or the lady will never trust you for fidelity in marriage. That’s why a lot of couples are always having problems and always fighting each other, there is no trust. Because of what they have done together with each other before they married each other. That’s why some women kill their husbands and why some men beat, maim or divorce their wives.

Each time you talk to someone, go out and stay out, come home late from work, visit your parents or friends, attend a party or an occasion or do any of such things, including making calls on the phone, they think you’re cheating on them with someone else.

Why? Because he or she does not and cannot trust you. Why? Because of what you’ve both done with each other before you married each other.

That’s why you must stay off premarital sex from today, not to think of living a couple life while still single. It can destroy your life and marriage in the future. I’ve told you now.

2. You’ll not be satisfied with your husband or wife in that marriage. Especially if you’re the guy, you’ll keep looking for something new, something fresh and a new girl, lady or woman to have sex with.

Because you’ve been sleeping with this one you married for ages and there’s nothing there that’s new or appealing to you anymore. And once you start chopping for new girls, you’ll one day meet one who would want to have you completely since he knows you’re already married, and then start using juju on you to control your life.

Eventually, your destiny would no longer be in your own hands but in the hands of the strange woman and in the hands of the “babalawo” she’s consulting on your head and in the hands of the demons that they sent to you to control your life.

So, you’ll eventually leave your real wife and children to suffer in life. And then someone somewhere would start raping your daughters or doing for them what you once did for their mother, another man’s daughter many years before. Your daughters might also turn into prostitutes, with anyone having free access to their private part at will.

And your sons might turn out to become hooligans and rapists or armed robbers. If they are caught, they could be sentenced to jail, sentenced to death, or burnt alive on the street through jungle justice.

For the lady, you could eventually lose your husband to another woman because you’ll no longer be appealing to him. He has eaten all you have and tasted all you’re selling before he married you, so, what more do you have?

You can’t grow more breast than you already had and you don’t have a new private part than the one he’s already been seeing and accessing since ages. So, what more do you have to offer him? That’s why a lot of women lose their husbands to strange women and what they now call side chicks.

That’s why some men are not faithful in marriage to their wives and always looking for a new girl or a new wife. So, what happens, you’re constantly being heartbroken and weeping. And the man could eventually abandon you and your children for the new one. And if that happens, all what I described above could happen to your children.

What’s the cause of all of this, living a couple life as a single years before marriage, whether by living with someone you’re not married to, visiting him or her and sleeping over in the house, or giving sex to a lady or a guy you’re not married to.

Once you do or you’re doing any of these three things, you’re already living a couple life as a single and what I described above could happen to you in the future. Because, you’ve sold your future in the present for pleasure.

So, change immediately. Stop premarital sex today, right now!

If you need help on this, consult me in private and I’ll give you discounts regarding the consulting fee. I want you to be happy in your marriage tomorrow.

END OF RESPONSE!

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I am A. T. ADENEKAN

Founder, The King’s People Connection & Happy Marriage Training Programme